Power of Focus

In a world of noise, focus is your superpower. By doing one thing at a time, you gain clarity and speed. Great results don’t come from multitasking.In a world of noise, focus is your superpower. By doing one thing at a time, you gain clarity and speed. Great results don’t come from multitasking

Why do we ask others for their opinions?

Yesterday I was meeting up for lunch with some of my friends. The weather was amazing and I knew the vegan spring roll starters that I made, was delicious. I felt excited and confident until I came upstairs to change. I decided to wear a pretty blue and white, tie & dye jumpsuit, which I …

Death: The Final Edge

It’s been an extremely difficult few years in my family because the dark, forbidden shadow was caste on loved ones, who left us behind. I have had my fair share of grieving and bereavement. Being a therapist, everyone expects me to be strong and deal with everything with reason and understanding. Sometimes, even the therapist …

7 ways to build the strongest bond with siblings?

Pillow fighting in our bedroom with my siblings, Nirvana, Navin and Nishan, when we were children, is a time which always make me smile. Who knew I would be flung against the wall, play fighting and have my first blue eye? Wow! My brother was in deep water when my dad got home that evening. …

Eliminate STRESS to be your BEST

If there is one piece of advice I could share, it would be to put your health first above anything else. As I was growing up, every morning- at 6am promptly- I would hear from my bedroom, my dad leaving home, lovingly saying goodbye to my mum with a kiss followed by the words, ‘love …

Death: The Final Stage 5 : Harmony

D– Denial       E- Enrage    A-Acknowledgement & Adjustment    T–Torment H-Harmony ‘Time heals’…is what  everyone said to me, when I lost my Dad. It didn’t feel that way even after months of missing and aching for him. I thought I was actually getting there- feeling myself again. However, after the 1st anniversary of his death, the pain and memories came floating …

Death: The Final Edge- Stage 4 : Torment

D– Denial       E- Enrage    A-Acknowledgement & Adjustment    T–Torment H-Harmony Months have passed by and your life seems to be living. You have worked through such deep feelings and although you still dearly miss the person you lost, you seemed to be strutting forward day by day. Your heart and soul still pines for the hugs and chats. Your heart …

Death: The Final Edge- Stage 3 Acknowledgement and Adjustment

It has been a while coming back to my blog writing. I’ve been focusing on my book which is in its final editing stages so I’m really happy and excited about publishing it. I really want to finish these series of blogs on Losing a loved one, which is actually the final edge for us, …